So I broke up with this guy a few months ago. When we met, he was a pretty cowardly, passive aggressive kind of person. I always tried to encourage him to speak up, not let things fester with his communication issues, and stand up for himself. He had two friendships break down over the course of our relationship, because he knew things were going badly, but didn’t want to say anything.
I’ll interrupt myself to say that I was a lot like that too. It took Thania pushing me and forcing me to talk to get past it.
So I did the same. I started pushing, forcing him to stop being passive aggressive, and to grow a pair. It was the character flaw that bothered me the most, but something a person can change. (If I can do it, anyone can, right?)
Well. Isn’t it just fucking karma biting me in the ass when he did finally grow a pair after I dumped him; and is a rude jackass on the rare occasion that we encounter each other. I swear, I should never help people. It kicks me in the ass at work, and in life. Here’s my lesson of the day, month, year, whatever. Help yourself, and fuck everyone else.
DON’T BUY FROM BEST BUY ONLINE! The stores seem fine, but do not buy online. Did you know that if you purchase a product online, you can’t refund, return, or exchange it in a store? If an item doesn’t have an in store pick up option, you have to deal with their delivery service. The delivery truck drivers are rude, badly trained, and more interested in when they can go back to the warehouse than actually delivering your purchase. Even a $760 TV. They will take off early and call it a cancellation because they get paid a wage regardless of whether you received your delivery or not. If you get that 3 hour scheduled window, be home waiting 2 hours prior because they don’t tell you the driver is free to leave at the start of that window if he’s early. The last 2 hours if that time frame don’t matter unless your driver is late. The customer means nothing to these douchebags.